At the end of my regular checkup last night, my doctor told me his office had adopted a patient "contract" for diabetes patients as a motivational tool to follow all of the treatment guidelines and goals and asked me to sign it.
But the "contract" had key two paragraphs he didn’t mention, that if I didn’t comply with all the guidelines, I would be discharged as a patient, and that if I was discharged, all family members would be discharged, too. He tried to down-play the significance of the paragraphs, but it was apparent that they were what the "contract" was all about and he was pretty adamant that I should sign it, which I didn’t, took it home to read, became even angrier that he lied about the nature of the "contract," actually an ultimatum, and continued to deny what it was for.
There has never been a question that I don’t do what I’m supposed to do, by the way.
Has anyone else been given such a thing by their doctor and coerced to sign it?
All reassuring answers so far, thanks a lot! My feeling is that this "contract" is being imposed by someone else, like an insurance carrier trying to cut its costs by coercing my doctor to get contracts or face being "discharged" from coverage.
since the way diabetes acts, especially type 2, that is a totally unfair "contract"!!
Most of us are not lazy, do not need to get off our butts and on to the treadmill or trail. Yes, we some of us need to lose some weight but that is not a Doctor’s option!! and neither is whether we are able to keep our glucose numbers within a certain narrow parameter.
My weight has gone from 110 to 160 with the introduction of insulin to my system!! I am definately not a couch potato!! In the past 10 years I have narrowed my food choices down to near nothing. some meat, spinach and tomato salads and apples!! This is 6 small meals per day.
I take the meds as scheduled, I eat as directed (other than eating a lot of cereals and grains) and do my walking daily.
It just doesn’t cover all the variables in a life!! I would not sign that form either!!
Suggest you terminate the doctor and find another one!! Or better still write up your own "contract" for the doctor to sign if you sign his!!
Contract will include:
no blaming patient for high glucose numbers,
no blaming patient for high blood pressure,
no blaming patient for occasional treats,
no blaming patient for bad temper,
no blaming patient for weight gain or loss,,
no blaming patient for insurance co’s lack of sending supplies.
I am sure you can write up the contract following the one from the doctor and adding these points and some more of your own.